tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904347759066019228.post6648427982950273325..comments2023-03-17T03:41:23.994-05:00Comments on the lesbiblog: Changing friendshipskandazzlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14531399559403359845noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904347759066019228.post-58785891567566441492009-03-14T17:27:00.000-05:002009-03-14T17:27:00.000-05:00kind of like, you can be a lesbian and still be an...kind of like, you can be a lesbian and still be an individual.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09162061891229291081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904347759066019228.post-75420695410596528342009-03-14T17:26:00.000-05:002009-03-14T17:26:00.000-05:00lol..friendship good, lesbianism awesome. definite...lol..<BR/><BR/>friendship good, lesbianism awesome. definitely accept you for who you are. i want you to accept you for who YOU are, and i dont want you to feel that you need to change yourself to fit into the lesbian stereotype. to come out as a lesbian takes a great deal of.. acceptance. of yourself. take that and run with it. you are who you are and you don't need to change yourself to fit inJenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09162061891229291081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904347759066019228.post-67512294536998448422009-03-14T14:11:00.000-05:002009-03-14T14:11:00.000-05:00Oh, I see! Well, there's still a certain level of...Oh, I see! Well, there's still a certain level of comfort that I think she still may have to deal with within herself as it relates to your 'change'. As long as she says that there's no problem that she has with you or the friendship, then flow with it. I'm sure your friendship, if genuine will be A-ok! Good luck to you both and may your friendship continue to progress in a positive direction.<BR/><BR/>~Ray~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904347759066019228.post-89202330925928514952009-03-14T11:26:00.000-05:002009-03-14T11:26:00.000-05:00I feel like I may have miscommunicated the situati...I feel like I may have miscommunicated the situation! Jenn doesn't have ANY problems with me being gay. She's totally fine with it. We are still bff, and all that. Mostly she was just talking about how I'm different now...idk. <BR/><BR/>Idk. Also she texted me today saying she doesn't consider our friendship changed at all so I think I've also misunderstood her a little? <BR/><BR/>Communication fail.kandazzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14531399559403359845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904347759066019228.post-46090226554602329702009-03-14T09:25:00.000-05:002009-03-14T09:25:00.000-05:00Don't sweat it Kandazzle!!! Just continue being y...Don't sweat it Kandazzle!!! Just continue being yourself and she'll eventually come around to liking you for your whole self...for who you really are and always will be, whether that's hetero, homo, bi, or omnisexual. It doesn't matter...all that matters is how you are on the inside; your soul not who you are innately attracted to. If she does not and cannot fully accept your entire being as a package deal, she wasn't your 'real' friend to begin with. It may take her some time and that's normal. So, hang in there and don't give up on your friendship unless she does. <BR/><BR/>Stay encouraged and be blessed!<BR/><BR/>~Ray~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com